feat(server/db): 数据层多库支持(1/4)— 连接分派 + 双方言迁移管线

- config 增 DB_DRIVER(mysql 默认 | sqlite);DSN 对 sqlite 为文件路径
- db.OpenDriver 按驱动分派:sqlite 用 modernc(纯 Go 免 CGO)+ WAL/
  busy_timeout/foreign_keys/_txlock=immediate;mysql 路径不变
- store.Open 分派;mysql 保留 UTC/collation 断言,sqlite 跳过
- 迁移拆 migrations/{mysql,sqlite}/ 双套,embed 双 FS,migrate 按驱动选源
  与 golang-migrate 驱动;修复 m.Close() 误关调用方 *sql.DB 的坑
- cmd/migrate 串入 DB_DRIVER;集成测试 MigrateUp 签名更新
- 新增 SQLite 时间往返 smoke 测试与端到端迁移测试(免 docker)

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

server/migrations/sqlite/000003_codes.up.sql

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+-- 激活码
+CREATE TABLE code_batches (
+  id          INTEGER PRIMARY KEY AUTOINCREMENT,
+  channel     TEXT NOT NULL CHECK (channel IN ('store','tg','line','manual')),
+  created_by  TEXT NOT NULL,
+  note        TEXT NULL,
+  created_at  DATETIME NOT NULL DEFAULT CURRENT_TIMESTAMP
+);
+
+CREATE TABLE codes (
+  id            INTEGER PRIMARY KEY AUTOINCREMENT,
+  code_hash     TEXT NOT NULL UNIQUE,              -- SHA-256
+  plan_id       INTEGER NOT NULL,
+  duration_days INTEGER NOT NULL,
+  batch_id      INTEGER NOT NULL,
+  status        TEXT NOT NULL DEFAULT 'unused' CHECK (status IN ('unused','redeemed','void')),
+  redeemed_by   INTEGER NULL,
+  redeemed_at   DATETIME NULL,
+  FOREIGN KEY (plan_id) REFERENCES plans(id),
+  FOREIGN KEY (batch_id) REFERENCES code_batches(id)
+);
+CREATE INDEX idx_codes_status ON codes (status);